People say one should never start a new relationship based on lies or by hiding his/her past. Relationships are based on trust but, no matter how much you’re asked to share each and every detail about your past, there are a few things which are a strict ‘No’, because revealing them, might end all your chances of a happy relationship, later:
• How many guys you have dated till date
When it comes to revealing your dating past, always remember one thing, men have double standards in judging a woman. If, you have dated a lot of guys before meeting him and you share the same with him, then he’ll think that you’re such a girl, who keeps on changing boyfriends too often and does not get serious in a relationship. Hence, this information, which you’ll share in order to have transparency between you both, will only create a bad image of yours in his mind. So, whenever you’re asked this question, just say as little as possible and change the topic for your own benefit.
• How great your ex was in bed
If you get intimate with your new boyfriend, then don’t you dare say how good your ex was in bed and how much you used to enjoy with his company. Talking about your past sexual experiences and praising your ex’s qualities, can kill your present relationship. This might force him to think that, you’re still not over him, which can break his trust and hurt his ego as well!
• How attractive ‘n’ hot his best friend looks
Meeting your boyfriend’s best friend and gelling along with him, is great but, telling your boyfriend how good and sexy his best friend looks, or how hot he was, is a ‘no-no’. Just image for a second, if your boyfriend meets your best friend and says the same, then how will you feel? Jealous, angry and will never take him out to meet your friends, right? In the same way, men like to be praised and acknowledged in-front of their friends, compliments boosts their moral and give them a nice ego massage too but, if you acknowledge his best friend, compliment him, tell him how sexy he was or anything like that, then you’re definitely putting your new relationship in trouble. All your kind words for your boyfriend’s friend will make your boyfriend insecure and jealous, which can lead to fights or even break-up.
• How many guys you have dated till date
When it comes to revealing your dating past, always remember one thing, men have double standards in judging a woman. If, you have dated a lot of guys before meeting him and you share the same with him, then he’ll think that you’re such a girl, who keeps on changing boyfriends too often and does not get serious in a relationship. Hence, this information, which you’ll share in order to have transparency between you both, will only create a bad image of yours in his mind. So, whenever you’re asked this question, just say as little as possible and change the topic for your own benefit.
• How great your ex was in bed
If you get intimate with your new boyfriend, then don’t you dare say how good your ex was in bed and how much you used to enjoy with his company. Talking about your past sexual experiences and praising your ex’s qualities, can kill your present relationship. This might force him to think that, you’re still not over him, which can break his trust and hurt his ego as well!
• How attractive ‘n’ hot his best friend looks
Meeting your boyfriend’s best friend and gelling along with him, is great but, telling your boyfriend how good and sexy his best friend looks, or how hot he was, is a ‘no-no’. Just image for a second, if your boyfriend meets your best friend and says the same, then how will you feel? Jealous, angry and will never take him out to meet your friends, right? In the same way, men like to be praised and acknowledged in-front of their friends, compliments boosts their moral and give them a nice ego massage too but, if you acknowledge his best friend, compliment him, tell him how sexy he was or anything like that, then you’re definitely putting your new relationship in trouble. All your kind words for your boyfriend’s friend will make your boyfriend insecure and jealous, which can lead to fights or even break-up.