3 Things you should never say to your boyfriend

People say one should never start a new relationship based on lies or by hiding his/her past. Relationships are based on trust but, no matter how much you’re asked to share each and every detail about your past, there are a few things which are a strict ‘No’, because revealing them, might end all your chances of a happy relationship, later:
• How many guys you have dated till date
When it comes to revealing your dating past, always remember one thing, men have double standards in judging a woman. If, you have dated a lot of guys before meeting him and you share the same with him, then he’ll think that you’re such a girl, who keeps on changing boyfriends too often and does not get serious in a relationship. Hence, this information, which you’ll share in order to have transparency between you both, will only create a bad image of yours in his mind. So, whenever you’re asked this question, just say as little as possible and change the topic for your own benefit.

10 ways to spice up your love life

Date again: You may be together for a while now, but the first step to bring back the magic is to be able to make an effort. Go on a dinner date every week. And talk about the fun things you could do the next weekend. Think about the dates you’d gone on when you first started dating.

Text your feelings: Your romance began thanks to those tiny love messages to each other. Then eventually it dies down. You probably text each other now only to inform that you’re in a meeting. Start texting again. Send smileys and little mush notes. It’s not cheesy, it’s sweet.

Work out together: Snatch that workout session as the time to bond. Walk or jog together. You’d realisethat keeping fit is fun when you are together. Plus, a walk out of the four walls of your home, with people on the streets, provides enough matter for interesting conversations.

So you think men only want sex?

London: Researchers have found that acts of affection like hugs and kisses were more important to men than women.
And for women, sex tends to get better over time - after a couple has been together about 15 years.

Researchers surveyed over 1,000 couples from five different countries who had been in relationships for between one and 51 years.

Men who reported frequent kissing and cuddling were three times as happy, on average, as those who had less snuggling with their wives or girlfriends.

Women, meanwhile, said that such shows of affection had very little impact on their happiness.

Both men and women reported their sex lives improving the longer their relationship had lasted.

But men were more likely to say they were happy with their relationship while women were more likely to report being satisfied with the sex.

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Cuddling vital for long-term relationships

Washington: Cuddling and caressing are vital for long-term satisfaction in relationships, according to an international study.

The couples, over 1,000 from the US, Brazil, Germany, Japan and Spain, were together for an average 25 years.

The study from the Kinsey Institute at Indiana University is the first to examine sexual and relationship parameters of middle-aged or older couples in committed, long-term relationships, reports the journal Archives of Sexual Behaviour.

"It`s important to note that though divorce rates are high in the US, couples tend to stay married -- more than 50 percent of US couples remain in their first marriage, and that number goes up to 90 percent in Spain," said Julia Heiman, who led the study, according to a Kinsey statement.

"We know from other research that being in a long-term relationship has some value to health," said Heiman, director of The Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction.

Participants in the study were 40 to 70-year-old men and their female partners, either married or living together for a minimum of one year. The study included around 200 couples from each country.

Spice up your married life

Ever wondered why your married life has become monotonous, routined and has lost the charm, that you used to enjoy in the initial years of marriage? If, you agree with what I said, and wish to break the monotony, make your married life full of love, romance and excitement like the initial years then, all you need to do is read on, as these simple tips are surely gonna help up spice up your married life once again:

• Surprises him

When was the last time when you gave him a gift? Surprised him for no occasion? Surprises actually help in keeping the marriage spicy, and waiting for a special occasion to give gifts and surprises, is really boring. So, surprise your spouse tonight with any of his/her favourite thing like, food item or a nice wrist watch which they so wanted when they were out for shopping with you. No matter what you gift them, big or small, expensive or inexpensive, they’ll love your gesture and the fact that you went an extra mile to make them happy and thus, this will help you break the monotony of your life.

Wanna look beautiful? Try Sex!

Most of us are aware of the feel good benefits of sex while we're engaged in it, but do you know that there are other benefits of sex too. Most of us spent a large amount of money on beauty products to make us look more beautiful but, are you aware that you can get a glowing skin or fight wrinkles for free? Yes, put more sex in your life and experience it's great benefits:

Good sex everyday keeps doctors away

You would have never thought that a kiss could help keeping dental worries at bay or a gratifying sexual act at night make you feel fit and fresh the next morning. But that's what studies across the web claim.
Healthy sex leads to a healthy life. You may have tried copious measures to get that extra glowing skin and shiny hair. You must have also worked out rigorously to achieve that perfect ten figure you've desired. But the key to your mind and heart is fulfilling sex. Even for those who lose their temper or are always in a depressed state of mind, 'sex' can be the solution.

Perfect girlfriend has a big sex drive!

Men believe that the perfect girlfriend is the one who has a high sex drive, enjoys a hearty meal and gets ready to go out in 10 minutes.
Apart from this, the perfect girlfriend is a career-minded woman who earns more than their partner but at the same time wants to stay at home and bring up the children.
The clue to these seemingly contradictory demands lies in the men polled, 3,000 bachelors.
Near the top of their girlfriend checklist is the requirement that she should have a "pert bottom" – which may explain why they are still single.

Sex-guide according to your age

Our sexual behaviour varies at different times in our lives. Sex guru Tracey Cox in her bestselling book, 'Sextasy' reveals the sexual urges and traits of lovers according to their age...
20-something
Most guys just can't stop dreaming about sex every couple of hours. At this age, girls are usually rebellious in their sexual imaginations. They share same-sex fantasies or want to try out bi-sexuality. A 2006 study of nearly 2000 people discovered that 76 per cent of women who slept with women reached orgasm (for women with men, the figure stands at 50 per cent).

The 20s are the time when young boys and girls are most experimental in their sexual positions. One in 10 people claims Tracey Cox have had a threesome in their early twenties.
Also, people in this age group have most likely visited a strip joint or a lapdancing club - with their friends or their better half.
30 something
The 30s are a time to experiment, almost all 30-somethings claim to have had sex outdoors. Unlike the teens when making out was the most common form of sexual experimentation, most 30 somethings prefer having sex somewhere semi-public like the beach, in the garden or on a park bench in the darkness. There's something wildly erotic about these sexapades! Also, high on the 30 something popularity chart are having sex in the shower or in the bath tub.

Sex and Sun Signs

Sex and Sun Signs
Sex is really important to keep your relationship sailing smooth forever. It is not just about physical pleasure but by giving in, you are expressing 'trust' that you have in your mate. It reflects affection, care, love and a feeling that you are wanted. If your sex life has gone for a toss, you have to work on it before your relationship is hit hard. In fact, sex has the power to put an end to conflicts in your relationship. So, discover your partners' passion points through their sun sign and keep the magic in your relationship alive.

Aries:
When your lover is Aries, sex is best if it's spontaneous and unrestricted. Their heads are erogenous zones-they love it when you mess up their hair and grab their face when they are making love. They are especially aroused by their partner's sexual organs.

Sex and yoga, is there a connection?

Yoga can give you greater flexibility, better muscle tone, can help you to release stress, and set you on a path to explore your spirituality. But can it really give you better sex? Yes it can. Yoga offers many benefits that can help you in your love life. It could be by improving your confidence, physical fitness and also calming the mind. When we are relaxed and focused then pleasure takes on a whole new meaning.

Sex and yoga are both part of a healthy and happy life. Knowing this gives you another great reason to roll out the mat. Here are the major ways that yoga can help you in this area:

Do Yoga for a better sex life

Hitler ordered sex dolls for Nazi troops

London, July 11 (IANS) Adolf Hitler ordered the Nazis to develop sex dolls for his soldiers so that they would not be affected with diseases after having sex with prostitutes, says a new book.

The synthetic sex dolls - that were smaller than life-size and called 'gynoids' - were made from silicone and designed to prevent soldiers from being hit by diseases like syphilis, the Daily Mail reported.

Hungarian actress Kathe von Nagy was reportedly asked if the doll could be modelled on her but she refused.

The doll was later 'left bland' with only blonde hair and blue eyes so that 'soldiers could apply their own fantasy', the book said.

Author Graeme Donald uncovered the sex doll 'Borghild Project' while researching the history of the Barbie doll.

6 foods to help you have great sex

They say sex is a great stressbuster. They are right because love-making has been found to relive the pressure of the burdens of life, ease stress, soothe chronic aches and pains, spur creativity and rev up the energy levels.
Experts say that anything that makes you feel good, alive and physically excited will make you feel as if you've shed years. And all these things are associated with sex.
You are probably aware of the basics of terrific sex, but let us suggest you a few aphrodisiacs which can add zing to your sex life.
Figs have been found to be brimming with minerals like magnesium, manganese and zinc and also Vitamin E. All of them can do wonders to spice up your sex life.